Valentine's Day Gift Guide for Guys

A best-selling book addressed the way men and women communicate in entirely different ways, but most guys probably don’t realize that his choice of a Valentine’s Day gift also speaks volumes about his personality as well as his feelings for the recipient of the gift. It really is the thought that counts; it’s not the amount of money you spend, but the presentation and the little details do make a difference. If you’re not ready for the “Big D” (Read: engagement ring) on this hearts and flowers holiday, here’s the message your gift may send:

Chocolates and Flowers:  There’s a reason these have been traditional for centuries. A beautiful bouquet and fancy box of candy say, “I’m a romantic guy, and I like you a lot!” Whether you pick these up last minute at your local grocery store or plan ahead with a florist and a fine chocolatier, do pay attention to the presentation. The fancy satin or velvet box is something we girls will keep for years to come, and roses say romance with more finesse than neon-colored daisies. For fine chocolates, try Gearhart’s on Libbie (http://gearhartschocolates.com/) or Godiva, (www.godiva.com) available at area malls and Fresh Market stores.

Jewelry:  If you want to go a step further than “I like you” to “I like you a lot, or I’m falling in love with you,” jewelry of any kind indicates more intimacy than food and flowers. Women tend to have a sentimental attachment to jewelry, especially when it’s received as a gift from someone they care about. Silver, gold or costume jewelry sends a less “serious” message, while anything sparkly like a diamond necklace or earrings hint at another diamond to come in the future. Again, presentation is part of the message: a cardboard box sends an entirely different “love note” than a velvet jeweler’s box. If your sweetie loves vintage, try the estate jewelry specialists at Carreras (http://carrerasjewelers.com/), or Richmond’s oldest jeweler Cowardin’s (www.cowardinsjewelers.com).

Tech Gadgets:  If you’re a forward-thinking and thoroughly modern young couple, you may eschew traditional gifts and go for high-tech gadgets to say “URAQT” to your BFF. An iPad, smartphone or some other communication device says you want to keep in touch on a regular basis. It’s fine to order this one online or pick it up at a discount or big box store, but some gift wrap or a pretty gift bag would still be a nice touch.

A Mushy Card:  “Hallmark moment” has become part of our lexicon, so dig deep for your romantic roots and spring for a flowery, sentimental card. Hey, it’s only one time a year and secretly, all girls love to see it in print.